Add a keyword-only `on_error` parameter to `multiprocessing.set_forkserver_preload()`. This allows the user to have exceptions during optional `forkserver` start method module preloading cause the forkserver subprocess to warn (generally to stderr) or exit with an error (preventing use of the forkserver) instead of being silently ignored.
This _also_ fixes an oversight, errors when preloading a `__main__` module are now treated the similarly. Those would always raise unlike other modules in preload, but that had gone unnoticed as up until bug fix PR GH-135295 in 3.14.1 and 3.13.8, the `__main__` module was never actually preloaded.
Based on original work by Nick Neumann @aggieNick02 in GH-99515.
Split test_multiprocessing_fork, test_multiprocessing_forkserver and
test_multiprocessing_spawn into test packages. Each package is made
of 4 sub-tests: processes, threads, manager and misc. It allows
running more tests in parallel and so reduce the total test duration.
